Dating sarah is not like dating liz
Understanding each other is the basis of connection.
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I do not understand why he won’t stop flirting with other girls.
But let’s take a completely different side of this…
because I know there are women reading this thinking, “Why should a woman do for this flirtatious disrespectful pig of a man? Here’s the deal – you’re asking me this question because you do not find his behavior acceptable. A guy always knows a woman’s limit is measured by how much she’s willing to tolerate.
and maybe learn something valuable about your guy in the process (maybe some need that he still needs met).
Some people have voids inside them and they forever try to fill them – with having other people desire them, with sex, with power, with money, etc.
and the moment you start bluffing about how much you’re willing to tolerate, he knows you’ll tolerate just about anything. Because if you’re afraid enough to lie about your limits, then it’s pretty likely that you don’t actually have limits you’re willing to enforce. Fear that this guy is the one true love of their life.