Dating searching partners relation
How could they have sex with that brain-dead skank/douchebag? The important thing to remember here is that their choices probably weren’t wrong, bad, evil, or immoral; they were probably just rather than as indiscretions.
If you look at their past choices as errors, then it becomes a matter of damnation or forgiveness.
Of course, the problem is that for 50% of marriages, sustainable marriage exist — the emotional ownership alone isn’t quite strong enough to last a lifetime in many cases.
There is such a thing as a person out there who will be so crazy in love with you, and feel so compatible with you, that they will commit to you with the same finality as a virgin would (if not more). Adjust your expectations so that you’ll be happy with complete emotional ownership, and try your damnedest not to accept anything less.