Friend dating your ex girlfriend
If it’s never happened to you, let me first say you’re lucky and then let me say that it absolutely sucks.
Being betrayed by two people you care about has to be one of the worst feelings ever, especially when things are done in an underhanded and sneaky way.
“The more you can deal with and be upfront with all the web of emotions,” Luiz says, “the more your friendship has a chance of not only surviving but deepening.” Beginning the discussion with your friend might be scary, at first.
Relationship coach and author Lisa Hayes told us, “You’ve got to get the green light. Instead of simply asking if it’s OK, you should instead ask a more thought-provoking and conversation-stimulating question.
You’re dating this awesome guy and you’re happy and in love. You spend a lot of time ranting about her to anyone who will listen, you don’t care if they don’t want to hear it. For some reason, your ex-BFF gets mad at YOU for talking about her so much. When you run into them anywhere, you want to run the other way.Despite the fact that basic girl code rules say we can’t date our best friend’s ex (unless we have her permission and even then, ), people always do it anyway.It’s not a fun experience to go through and if it’s happening to you, here’s a cyber hug.If you find yourself faced with one of those moments, we're here to here to help you keep your cool (and decide whether it's worth keeping your friend): How to Handle Your Best Friend Hooking Up With Your Ex-Girlfriend.