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My advice would be to keep your dating in that sort of setting until you really know what you want.Because no matter how sweet and demure he might seem, the moment you invite him up all bets are off.I’ve also never written about my proclivity towards AMWF relationships. I guess I don’t want people thinking it’s the only reason why I live here, in Asia.But the truth is that when I have dated, both in Seattle and abroad, it’s almost always been with Asian males. We all know that motivations are always this abstract, jumbled mess of things. I tutored Asian ESL students when I was a university student, both male and female and I always admired and respected how hard they worked.I mean, I’ve always been the introverted type and have never been much of a party-girl but for me and my standards, I was going all out. By the time I had been in Korea about 7 or 8 months, I looked around and noticed I knew quite a number of other Western girls who had also been burned and disillusioned from their experiences with dating Korean men. Dating in Korea: What Every Woman Should Know 1.) Get Yourself A Korean Bestie and Pour Your Little Heart Out* Nobody will be able to give you dating advice in Korea better than another Korean and your best bet is to have a Korean girlfriend who is around your age. I’m on a long distance bus ride with one of my Korean co-workers who would end up being one of my closest friends and we’re talking about dating.I thought, And sometimes it was, but oftentimes it really wasn’t. And these were some Sweet, intelligent, bake you a cake and talk about real-shit girls who had absolutely had it with Korean men. Myself and my other Western girlfriends had come up with a set of sort-of standards about Asian guys and one of them was that they would disappear for weeks or months at a time and then just call or text you out of the blue.When a Korean man is in love with you, you will know it. They will show it in the most surprising ways sometimes.You can probably expect flowers or silly little gifts.
Western women like sex and they have sex a lot, this is what Asian guys think.
For one thing, you have a 99.9% chance of having to accept that the love of your life hasn't told his parents that you exist, or if he has, he has told them that you are his English teacher.
Koreans tend not to introduce their boyfriends/girlfriends to their parents unless they are planning to marry.
2.) Remember That Western Women Have a Reputation in Asia I would estimate that at least half of my first dates in Korea ended up with the guy trying to have sex with me.
Sometimes this would happen after I had very long open conversations with him about the fact that I was tired of the reputation that Western women have in Korea and that I wasn’t interested in casual sex!It is the most undeniable, indisputable fact about being a Westerner trying to make relationships work in Asia.Now, some of you don’t know me but I don’t dress provocatively. Yes it is harsh, but I find it’s also something that women in AMWF relationships on the blogosphere don’t write about enough.Once they get over their initial shyness, you will find that many Korean men will want to ask you out or just to get to know you better.