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We yearn to embrace our sexual bliss, and yet have allowed what our mothers, grandmothers, aunties, and sister-friends have said about “them” keep us from pursuing something new.We know how hard it is to fight against the stereotypes of black women as lascivious, innately promiscuous, and even predatory, deviants— and yet we feel more than justified in projecting our own labels on others, unfairly sizing up men and defining their capabilities between the sheets (or lack thereof) based on what so-and-so- said instead of considering the realities of the individual that just might be the guy who can makes your toes curl.” My toes curled, more than once. And even though I doubt me and this kid from Jersey will ever be more than just friends due to our chosen life paths (he’s ready to settle in one place and pursue a serious relationship, I want to keep traveling and find a partner who is willing to go with me), it was still worth giving us the opportunity to share intimacy, a deeper level of connection, and now, a stronger friendship.Nonetheless, he invited me back to meet his friends staring at him in disbelief thinking he actually succeeded in picking up this Brasilian girl.He broke the ice immediately and said, “She’s American.” And once again, I got the line, “We thought you were Brasilian!

Kehinde Wiley, 41 (pictured, far right, Monday), the artist who painted former President Barack Obama's (center, with Michelle Obama) official portrait has come under fire for past paintings featuring scandalous subjects'Judith and Holofernes is from Wiley's most recent body of work and his first series of paintings to feature female subjects.'Wiley translates this image of a courageous, powerful woman into a contemporary version that resonates with fury and righteousness.'In an interview with New York Magazine, he said: 'It's sort of a play on the "kill whitey" thing,'Wiley, one of six children, was born to a Nigerian father and an African-American father, but he and his siblings grew up in South Central Los Angeles in the 1980 with just their mother.

The sex was focused primarily on my pleasure, and he wasn’t lacking in anyway to be able to deliver it.

But it did make me reflect on why I had limited myself for so long to just having sex and dating Black men or never challenging the popular stereotypes.

I grew up believing a number of stereotypes about non-Black men, especially when it came to sex.

If you asked most of my friends, their packages tended to be small unless they were of Latin or Italian descent, but they made up for it in the oral sex arena.

After listening to his tried pick up line in American-accented Portuguese, I cut him off and bluntly asked him in English where he was from.



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